4 nights out a month with people you choose.
We book it all. You just turn up.
Launching this summer in London
Get early accessA few questions so we can put you with people you'll actually click with.
Mingle, find your people, form a group of 12.
Same group, same time. Bowling, dinners, drinks and more - different every month.
Stick with the same people, mix it up, or start over with new ones.
When I lived in London, my friend group thinned out as people moved away or had kids. Making new friends as a working adult turned out to be a nightmare. Apps are for swiping, not staying. Meetup is a roomful of randos you'll never see again. And most social clubs cost more than your rent.
What I wanted was a way to keep meeting the same compatible people enough times to actually become friends. That didn't exist. Now I'm building it.
— Al Bates
Building gether after living this for too long
A mix of nights out - bars, bowling, dinners, and more. Tailored to your group's energy and the city's calendar.
Venues booked, dates set, group sorted. You turn up and cover your own food and drinks at the venue.
Same time each week, so you can lock it into your calendar. We'll ask your availability in the survey and group you with people on a similar schedule.
Yep. Tell us who you want to be grouped with, we'll put you together. Bring one or several - gether works just as well for friend groups expanding their circle as for solos.
Everyone completes the same survey. We use it to invite people who'll actually get on - based on availability, age/energy, and what they're after. You won't end up in an awkward room.
Pick your group on the night. We'll share the full lineup the next day so you can see exactly who you'll be meeting - confirm if you're happy, or step back if it's not for you.
Within 24-48 hours, groups still forming can invite you to join. Accept and you're in. Decline and we'll refund your cycle fee, minus the £15 match-night ticket.
Founding members are first to apply when we open.
You'll also get an early say in how gether works.